Making small daily decisions to save money can help you afford for bigger, more important purchases and investments.
In
this Aug. 1 photo, Ann Brown and her daughter Julie Anne shop for
school supplies at a Staples store in Little Rock, Ark. Making small
frugal decisions, like waiting for a sale to shop, or turning down your
thermostat during the winter, can help you afford bigger, more
important purchases and investments.
Danny Johnston/AP/File
By
Trent Hamm, Guest blogger /
August 13, 2010
This
past weekend, I attended GenCon 2010, a gaming convention in
Indianapolis, IN, with a group of several friends. I had been saving up
to attend this convention for a while, and that savings consisted
largely of money saved in the way I described this morning: making lots of small choices that saved money and didn’t negatively impact my way of living.
The Simple Dollar is a blog for those of us who need both cents and
sense: people fighting debt and bad spending habits while building a
financially secure future and still affording a latte or two. Our busy
lives are crazy enough without having to compare five hundred mutual
funds – we just want simple ways to manage our finances and save a
little money.
During
the convention, I had many opportunities to chat with people and I
found that at least a few of them had done the exact same thing. They
didn’t have the income or resources to travel to such things regularly,
but they chose to cut back in other areas. Some of them didn’t own
televisions at home, for example. Some of them ran small side
businesses for income. Others simply did frugal things, like eating
meals at home and putting the savings away for their trip.
In each case, the rule of thumb is the same: they took money away from something of less importance to them to use the money on something of more importance to them.
Translate this to your own life for a moment. What things in your life would you love to be doing but you can’t because you can’t afford it? What do you sit around daydreaming about but never actually do because you don’t have the money?
Maybe you are deeply passionate about travel, but you can only travel once every few years.
Maybe
you dream about having the perfect home entertainment setup, but you
balk at the price of the television and other equipment.
Maybe
your idle thoughts focus on something like attending a convention
related to your hobby, but the trip and the expenses are just too much.
You spend years dreaming about these things, but they just keep being out of reach.
That’s where sensible frugality plays a role. The trick is to cut back – hard – in the areas that don’t matter as much to you and save
that money where you’ve cut back. This enables you to live your life
without misery. (Of course, there’s nothing saying you can’t also
choose to make sacrifices in specific areas important to you, too.) At
the end of the year, though, you find yourself with the money for that
trip or that television or that convention – and you can just do it.
I’ll give a very specific example.
I’ve
seen an absolutely gorgeous 60″ LED HDTV for sale at Sam’s Club for
about $2,400. It’s beautiful – I won’t deny that. If someone deeply
wanted an absolutely amazing home entertainment setup, they might very
well make this television the centerpiece of that room. I could see
someone who played a lot of video games and/or watched a lot of
television purchasing this flat screen and installing it happily in
their living room.
But they can’t afford it! What’s a solution to get there?
The person spends $300 a month on their energy bill. Installing a programmable thermostat
will cost about $40 up front, but the reduction in energy costs will be
about $50 a month or so if properly programmed. This adds up to a total
savings of $560 over the course of a year.
The person does three loads of laundry a week. Making their own detergent saves $0.20 a load. Over the course of a year, that adds up to $31.20.
The person drinks a couple bottles of soda a day. Switching to refillable bottles of water stored in the fridge eliminates about $1 a day in spending, giving you $52 more (and it’ll do wonders for your health).
The person commutes 20 miles to work every day for an 40 mile round trip. Setting up a car pool with just one other person four days a week eliminates 80 miles of driving a week. Using the government reimbursement rates, that simple switch will save you $1,040 a year.
The person eats out three times a week. Eating something inexpensive at home once a week instead of eating out saves the person $10 a week, adding up to another $520 over the year.
The person subscribes to a couple premium movie channels that he barely watches. Eliminating these subscriptions and joining Netflix instead reduces the monthly cost from $25 to $9, a savings of $192 a year.
Those
moves saves the person $2,395.20 over the course of a year. If he’s
socking that money away faithfully in an account bearing 2% interest,
he’ll wind up with $2,420 at the end of the year. Time to go buy that television.
Here’s the thing, though: none of those changes required much time investment and they didn’t affect that person’s quality of day-to-day life much at all.
He didn’t give up anything life-affirming, but at the end of the year,
he had enough cash in hand to make that daydream come true.
You can just substitute in your own “dream” and your own frugal methods of getting there right into this plan. Browse big lists of frugality tips and free things to do
and be selective with them, trying out only the things that work for
you. Keep track of what you actually save and sock away those savings.
Eventually,
you’ll find that you’ve built up some money for whatever it is you’re
dreaming of. Even better, you’ll find that this kind of savings is very
sustainable and it’ll help you keep building for whatever dream comes next after that.
You
can use it to pay off debts. You can use it to build an emergency fund.
You can use it to fly to Maui. You can use it to redo your kitchen.
Whatever it is you dream of, sensible frugality can do it.
You just need a goal – and you need to start taking the little steps to get there.
Are you ready to start today?
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Textbook rental services are on the rise as college students look for ways to save money when buying textbooks.
The
textbook rental market is taking off with more retailers adopting
rental services in response to book rental websites. In this photo
taken July 26, Brittany Wolfe, a University of California Los Angeles
graduate, checks old text books at the UCLA Powell Library Building.
Renting is a growingly popular choice for students looking to save
money on textbooks.
Damian Dovarganes/AP
By
Alissa Figueroa, Correspondent /
August 9, 2010
Textbook rental is becoming an increasingly popular choice for college students, who’ve seen book prices surge in recent years.
Students
can cut their upfront costs in half by renting, rather than buying a
textbook, according to the National Association of College Stores, a a
trade group for textbook vendors.
And retailers across the
country are responding, with local college bookstores opening their own
rental services to compete with online book rental sites, like bookrenter.com, which offers free shipping and access to some 3 million titles through a partnership with Amazon.
The
National Association of College Stores says about half of its 3,000
member stores will offer book rentals this year. That's some 1,500
independent college bookstores, up from only 200 to 300 last fall.
Barnes
& Noble announced on Monday that it, too, would expand its pilot
textbook rental program, started in January, to include all of its 637
college bookstores. Students can also rent textbooks from the company’s
website.
But aren't paper textbooks (whose cost has increase at
twice the rate of inflation over the last two decades, according to the
Government Accountability Office) a bit, well, last semester?
For
students looking for digitized alternatives, their options are growing
as well. Last week, Barnes & Noble announced its new NOOKstudy software package, which students can download for free to access the bookseller’s digital textbooks.
The
service allows students to tag, highlight, search, and take notes on
their e-textbooks, and offers the option to rent a digital book for the
semester at a reduced price.
Contrary to what its name suggests,
NOOKstudy is not accessible from Barnes & Noble’s e-reader, the
nook, or another mobile device – it can only be downloaded onto a PC or
a Mac. Smaller devices are not suitable for viewing textbooks’
graphic-heavy pages, says the booksellers’ website.
The makers
of Amazon’s Kindle e-reader thought they’d solved that problem with the
Kindle DX, a wider version of the original e-reader designed to make
reading academic texts easier.
Last year, the company gave students at seven universities access to the devices with their class materials preloaded onto them.
But
as the Village Voice reported last month, the experiment didn’t go very
well – several students given Kindles bought the physical textbooks for
their classes instead, citing difficulty in taking notes, navigating
the books, and reading the color graphics that were shown in black and
white.
Of course, there is also the cost of e-readers themselves,
which, at around $150 to $200 are a steep investment for any student on
a budget.
Another option could be open-source textbooks, as are available on curriki.org,
a nonprofit that seeks to provide "universal access to free curricula
and instructional materials for grades K-12," according to its website.
For college professors, though, who are generally very specific about
which textbook their students work from, it could be a long time before
open-source curricula are adopted widely.
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For most people, a house is the biggest purchase they will make in
their lives, one they will pay off for years, even decades, to come.
But spending too much on a house could leave you with little money for
other goals in life, such as retirement, college funds and vacation.
Before beginning a house hunt, you must first decide whether renting or buying makes the most sense.
If you’re a renter, keep in mind that your rent will go up over
time. Renters usually rent if they know or like the idea that they can
move when and if they like. Also, renters usually do not have to pay
for the maintenance, lawn care or home repairs. They also don’t have to
put sweat equity into the rental.
If you buy, know that you’re committed to years of fixing anything
that breaks in the house, manicuring the lawn, and paying for any major
repairs. Renting makes sense if you plan to live somewhere for a
relatively short period of time, as the costs associated with buying a
home — such as escrow fees, taxes and closing costs — take some time to
amortize. If you’re planning to remain in a place for a longer period
of time, buying a house is usually the way to go (however, this
equation changes with home values in your area, employment trends and
several other factors). Even though the market may fluctuate, over a
long stretch you’re likely to make money. And as the real estate market
has shown us in 2007 and 2008, it can be a bumpy ride.
If you’ve decided that home ownership is right for you, the next
step is deciding how much home you can afford. Typically, most lenders
suggest that you spend no more than 28% of your monthly income on a
mortgage. Try calculators from dinkytown.com or Bankrate.com
to find out how much you can afford. Keep in mind, in addition to the
mortgage costs, you’ll have to pay the closing costs and legal fees,
which are usually 2% to 3% of the house price. Also, don’t forget
moving fees and labor, and any fixes that you might have to make to the
house upon moving in, plus monthly maintenance fees if you’re moving
into a condo or planned community.
When you’ve figured out your price range, take a look at the market
and the issues that matter to you. Research school districts, crime
statistics, impending construction or anything that could decrease or
increase the value of a home. Look at the surrounding area to see if
it’s a place in which you see yourself and family. You can research at greatschools.net or Zillow.com.
When you’ve chosen a home to bid on, don’t assume that the selling
cost is the actual cost of the house. While real estate agents use
comparable houses, or “comps” as way to price a house, consider what it
might cost to buy and build a home on piece of land in that area. For a
thorough assessment, hire an appraiser. You can even search zip codes
online at AppraisalInstitute.org.
If you have the cash to buy and upkeep, go ahead and buy a home. It’s an investment that will grow over time.
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Friday, 30th April 2010 (by J.D. Roth) Exerpt
Last week I gave a talk at Powell’s bookstore here in
Portland. During the question-and-answers session, one woman posed an
interesting question. (I’ve forgotten her name, so let’s call her Kim
to make things easy.)
Kim has been aggressively paying down her debt, and is pleased with
her progress. However, her boyfriend thinks she’s doing it wrong. If I
understand correctly, Kim’s boyfriend believes she should pay down each
debt part way (perhaps a half or a third) so that none of her
obligations is near its limit. He believes that this will increase
Kim’s credit score. Kim wanted to know if this was a good idea.
Too much control
Obviously, it’s difficult to give a complete answer without knowing
more about the situation. Still, I think this is a great example of how
financial decisions are often about more than just the math involved.
There are three basic approaches to debt here:
- Tackle the debts in order of interest rate, knocking off the
high-interest debts first. Mathematically, this is the best option
because — if you follow through — you’ll pay less interest in the long
run.
- Tackle the debts in order of balance, starting with the debts you
owe least on first. Psychologically, this is usually the best option
because you can get some quick wins, knocking off several debts in a
short amount of time. This is the method Dave Ramsey recommends. (And
so do I.)
- Or, as Kim’s boyfriend recommends, try to coordinate payments so
that each debt is paid down to a certain level before focusing on a
specific obligation. For various esoteric reasons, this method should have the greatest impact on your credit score.
My recommendation during the question-and-answer period? No
surprise: I told Kim that she should use the approach that makes her
most comfortable, the approach that actually leads her to pay off her
debts most quickly. I think it’s great that her boyfriend is eager for
her to improve her credit score, but I think it’s dangerous to be
dogmatic, especially if it involved becoming controlling about another person’s financial situation.
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I love stories like these! This is a couple who delayed their instant gratifacation (debt bearing) honeymoon, waited, and paid for it in cash.
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An interesting article from USA TODAY and have to say I agree you need to steer clear of these 8 missteps!
By Kathryn Canavan, Special for USA TODAY
The road to financial hell is paved with alluring options: credit cards, payday loans, reverse mortgages, 401(k) raids and more.
And even though parts of the economy are
starting to look stronger, the unemployment rate remains at 9.7%, many
families are absorbing weeks of unpaid furloughs and others are simply
trying to rebuild what they have lost.
Don't compound your problems by making these eight major money missteps:
1. Raiding your 401(k)
Don't think of retirement savings as "now"
money. It's money you've really got to save for later, says Mackey
McNeill, a CPA who serves on the American Institute of Certified Public Accountants' Financial Literacy Commission.
"Our parents' generation generally worked for
someone who gave them a pension check for the rest of their lives," she
says. "Today, we actually control our pensions. People think, 'I can
see those dollars there. They have my name on the account. I'm going to
use that money.' "
It's particularly foolhardy to dip into your
401(k) if you're in danger of bankruptcy, McNeill says, because
retirement accounts are protected under bankruptcy laws in most states.
You don't have to surrender your retirement to get a fresh start.
"Some people use their IRAs, and then they wind
up in bankruptcy, anyway," she says. "So now, they're bankrupt and they
don't have any retirement."
2. Walking out on a mortgage
If you owe more than your house is worth,
walking away is not your only option, providing that you still have
some income to pay a mortgage. McNeill says the first step is to look
honestly at your finances and determine whether you face a short-term
issue or a long-term one.
Short-term means you just got laid off and have
no savings or small savings, but the job market in your town is such
that you can probably get some part-time or full-time work to keep
money coming in. Long-term means you've been unemployed, you've
depleted your savings, and you don't see a way back into the job market.
"If it's long term, then you can't afford your
home anymore," McNeill says. "The faster you recognize it and make
plans to let it go, the better it will be. Put your best foot forward
to sell your home. Move into a smaller, less-expensive place and
preserve your capital for when times are better for you.
"If it is a short-term situation, talk with your
mortgage lenders and see if they will suspend or lower your payments
over the next three to six months," McNeill says.
For information about modifying your mortgage,
go to MakingHomeAffordable.gov, a website sponsored by the federal
government with the goal of helping the 12 million American families
whose homes are now worth less than they owe. The site lists
HUD-approved counselors who will work with you for free. If you do not
use the Internet, you can contact the program toll-free at 888-995-4673.
3. Ignoring the card balance
Although credit card usage dipped more than 13%
in February, almost 15% of American families still owe more than 40% of
their income, according to the Federal Reserve.
A credit card should be used strictly as a
convenience, not as a means to spend more than you can afford, says Ken
McDonnell of the American Savings Education Council.
"Ask yourself the question, 'Do I really need
that?' Or, more important, 'Can I afford it?' These aren't radically
new concepts."
McDonnell recommends reading the new
government-mandated box on your credit card bill that shows how long it
will take to pay off your balance if you pay only the minimum and how
much interest you pay to carry a balance.
"You won't get out of debt overnight. It's going to take time," he says. "Behavior modification just doesn't happen overnight."
4. Debt-wipeout scams
Be careful when talking with debt-consolidation firms.
"Most of the ones I've seen are shams," says McNeill. "I would be very, very cautious. Pretty much, stay away."
An alternative: Seek help through a local United Way
chapter, which provides referrals to non-profit counselors, or through
the non-profit National Foundation for Credit Counseling.
5. Co-signing a loan
If a friend or relative asks you to co-sign a
loan, it means his credit is so shaky no lender will give him money on
his own merits. Why should you?
"Co-signing is a business transaction, but
people don't think of it as a business transaction. They think, 'I'm
helping my friend out,' " McDonnell says.
"But what you're really doing is co-signing for a loan," McDonnell says, "and you could be on the hook for that."
Nessa Feddis of the American Bankers Association says you should always assume you will have to repay the loan you're co-signing.
"I would be more cautious about co-signing for a
romantic relationship than in a parent-child relationship," Feddis
says. "Relationships can end up badly. There can be a lot of acrimony,
and that could change someone's interest in repaying that loan."
6. Payday loans
About 19 million Americans have resorted to these high-interest loans, although the number has dropped in the past year.
They are marketed as short-term cash advances to meet emergency expenses between paychecks.
But consumers often become trapped in repeat borrowing, says Jean Ann Fox of the Consumer Federation of America.
For the average two-week payday loan, the
annualized interest rate ranges from 391% to 521%, says Kathleen Day of
the Center for Responsible Lending.
7. Reverse mortgages
Older actors pop up on television marketing
these mortgages as an easy income stream for seniors who are house-rich
and cash-poor. But the fees and other costs associated with reverse
mortgages can sometimes be considerably higher than on other loans.
David Certner of AARP says a reverse mortgage
may be a reasonable choice for some homeowners, especially the nearly
one-third of retirees who have almost no income other than their Social
Security checks, but the high fees associated with it make it a last
resort, not a first resort.
Other options: Take out a home equity loan. Sell
your home and move to a smaller, less-expensive one. Or sell your home
to your kids and create a multigenerational family under one roof. When
you die, they can use their inheritance to pay down the mortgage.
8. Trying to stiff Uncle Sam
"If you look at the small print when you sign
your tax return," says Gerald Feffer, a Washington, D.C., tax attorney,
"you'll see that basically you're affirming that everything in it is
accurate and true."
What happens if you are audited and everything is not accurate?
"If it's a small amount, and it's accidental and
not intentional, it will be resolved," Feffer says. "If it's a large
amount, and they can be sure it's intentional, then they could charge
you with fraud, and there could be penalties involved."
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The Simple Dollar
By
Trent Hamm, Guest blogger / 04.16.10
This summer, my wife and I and our three children – a four year old,
a two year old, and a baby – are going on at least three different
family trips. One will be to downstate Illinois, another will be to
northeast Iowa and southwest Wisconsin, and the third will be to
northern Minnesota. That doesn’t include multiple graduations we’re
going to attend in May, either.
How are we going to do this while
simultaneously keeping our sanity (yes, you try traveling for several
hours in a vehicle with a four year old, a two year old, and an infant)
and keeping our wallets in good shape? Here are seven methods we’re
using to provide great experiences for our family while also keeping
our finances in mind.
Keep in mind why we’re doing this
Why
would we want to travel with a car full of small children? For some
people, there may be no rational answer to this question at all. For
us, though, there are several reasons.
First and foremost, we
want the children to see different places and people. The geography
where we live is very flat; this summer, they’re going to visit some
very hilly areas. There are no large lakes here, but this summer we’re
going to visit Lake Superior. We’re also going to go to areas with at
least some cultural differences from home. On top of that, we also want
to spend a lot of time outside, as fresh air is one of the best things
you can give a child or give yourself.
Those are the reasons
we’re traveling. Those reasons have nothing to do with seeing some
mind-blowing sites or going to spectacular events. We know why we’re
doing this and we let those reasons lead the whole vacation. As long as
we follow that lead, we don’t need to pour money on other activities or
sojourns.
Stay with family and friends
On each of
these trips, either in the middle of a travel leg or near our
destination, we’ll be staying with family or with friends.
This
provides both a social purpose (seeing people we care about) and a
financial purpose (free lodging for a night or two). Usually, in
exchange for this, we often will buy dinner when we’re there (or
prepare it). We also allow any family and friends who are in our area
to stay at our home for free.
This is an exchange that does nothing but build relationships and help out everyone involved.
Camp out
At
least once this summer (perhaps twice), we will be camping out for
multiple days. Yes, with a baby. We did it with just one baby and we
did it with both a toddler and a baby, so I don’t think it’ll be a
problem doing it again with two young children and a baby.
In
fact, there’s one big advantage to camping: unless there’s a storm,
when everyone falls asleep, everyone sleeps really deeply. I actually
tend to sleep better when we’re camping because there are no night-time
interruptions or other such things.
On top of that, camping can
be incredibly inexpensive. We often request camping gear for
gift-giving occasions, which makes camping nearly free. Usually, all we
pay for is the spot to camp on – $10 to $20 a night unless we find a
free option. Our supplies are usually inexpensive, too, especially if
we collect or make our own while we’re there. It provides exercise,
tons of fresh air, and some wonderful time in the great outdoors with
the people I care about most.
Plan for the road trips
Road
trips can be a very expensive part of traveling (as can flying, but I’m
just simply not going to attempt that with three children under five).
Between the gas, the maintenance costs, and the expensive food and
beverages along the way, it can really add up.
That’s why I do some advance planning. The goal is to prevent stops, because stops are expensive.
First,
I make sure there are plenty of beverages and snacks packed, probably
more than we need. I usually pack sandwiches and vegetables and fruits
so that we can have a full picnic meal on the road. I also prepare a
big bag full of things to do for the children on the trip.
Second,
we stop mostly at rest stops and everyone is required to go to the
restroom when we stop. This reduces the temptation to spend money on
overpriced stuff when we stop and it also reduces the overall number of
stops. Another advantage is that many rest stops (particularly in Iowa)
have areas for running around in the grass and picnicking, both of
which happen on trips.
Use alternative housing
Hostels.
College dorms. YMCA lodging. Housesitting. These are all great options
for saving money on lodging when you arrive if you’d prefer not to
camp. We are actually going to do some housesitting this summer for one
of our trips.
Find out what types of alternative housing are
available at your destination. This can be done with just a bit of
effective internet searching. Reviews of the housing (available on many
travel websites) can help you avoid unexpected problems.
Utilize free activities when we’re there
Vacation
doesn’t have to be about jumping from high-priced activity to
high-priced activity. Most of the best memories from the vacations I’ve
taken in my life come from the free things we did: climbing a hillside
in Edinburgh, putting my feet in the ocean northwest of Seattle,
seeking out petroglyphs on foot in rural Arizona.
Yes, if there’s
something your heart is set on that you really want to see that costs
money, do it. However, use travel guides that help you identify the
free things in the area and use those to fill up your activity
schedule. Spend some time doing simple things, like walking in the
woods or resting on the beach or building a great campfire.
Be resourceful
Before
you go, tell your social network where you’re intending to go and ask
if they have any tips or suggestions about traveling there. You might
just be shocked at what your receive in return.
Be resourceful
when you’re there as well. Don’t buy firewood if you can find it
yourself. Don’t buy campfire roasting sticks – use a knife and make
them from branches. Don’t buy beverages – carry an empty container and
fill up at water fountains. Just by taking a few little steps to avoid
buying things, you can save money left and right on your trip without
reducing your enjoyment of it one iota.
Good luck!
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It's
a simple calculus, kids and money: From birth until college graduation,
children consume dollars like they're chicken nuggets.
For those of us who aren't independently wealthy, that puts
unrelenting pressure on the family pocketbook. The financial demands of
raising a child require that money you otherwise might use to prepare
for retirement, or to save for a nicer house, a sportier car or a
swankier vacation, must, out of necessity, be earmarked for Lego sets
and pediatrician visits and school uniforms and Christmas toys and a
college savings account and a minivan and a trip to Disneyland ... and
lots of, well, chicken nuggets.
I'm not saying this to disparage kids. I have two of my own, and
money is nothing in comparison to the happiness they bring me and my
wife. Yet happiness does not negate the fact that the moment a child
arrives -- and, actually, months before the arrival -- your role as an
adult changes in dramatic, profound ways.
And so, too, does your family's financial life.
Ryan Snook
Not
only are you now on the hook for tens of thousands of dollars in costs
over the next two decades, you also have a new obligation to teach your
children about money so that they grow into adults who are at home in
the financial world and who have a healthy relationship with money.
You, the parent, are the first and most crucial link in that learning
process.
A Lot to Teach
I know that money seems a simple technology
and one that wouldn't seem to require much handholding. After all,
you've been spending it yourself since you were a kid, and you've been
earning it at least a few years. What more is there to know about it,
really? And what more do you really need to teach your kids that you
don't already know yourself? Well, if statistics are any indicator, a
lot.
In measuring how well 12th graders understand the basics of personal
finance, the nonprofit Jump$tart Coalition for Personal Financial
Literacy found that a measly 10% could satisfactorily answer questions
about personal finance. Many had no clue how to balance a checkbook.
Over all, about half the students failed a test on basic
personal-finance literacy.
Yet
life as an adult clearly requires knowledge of personal finance. That
doesn't mean your child needs an M.B.A. in security analysis or that
you need to hire a financial adviser to tutor your preschooler. But
kids obviously need better information to more effectively manage their
own financial resources one day.
Kids have an infinite ability to hear what parents say, even in
those moments we're convinced they haven't heard a word we uttered.
Moreover, the concept you're pushing might not sink in the first time.
Or the third time. Or the eighth time. But there will come a moment
when you say what you need to say for the umpteenth time, and the way
you phrase it or the mood of the moment or the experience your child
just had will cause your lesson, almost miraculously, to suddenly
resonate.
Of course, you might not know it at that moment. You will know it, though, when you see or hear your lessons in action.
Driving back from one of my son's soccer games a year or so ago, a
flashy Italian sports car pulled up alongside of us on the freeway and
the teammate riding home with us said, "Wow, that guy's rich."
Adapted from "Piggybanking: Preparing Your Financial Life for Your Kids, and Your Kids for a Financial Life." Copyright 2010 by Jeff D. Opdyke. Published by Harper Business, an imprint of HarperCollins Publishers.
My son, engrossed in a handheld videogame, looked up to
glance at the roadster and reflexively replied, "It's not how much
money you spend that makes you rich. You don't know; that guy might
have spent all his money just to buy that car and he has nothing else.
So he might not be rich at all."
Here he was casually correcting a teammate about what is and isn't
the definition of wealth, barely having to think about what he was
saying. The words were coming out effortlessly. Mom and Dad, he proved,
really can make a difference when they set out to instill a bit of
financial wisdom in their children.
But my son's commentary was not based on a one-off lecture I'd given
him. The lessons had begun early and his mom and I reiterated them time
and again.
Make a First Impression
Kids are far more impressionable
when they're younger and much less likely to have any sort of
experiences outside the family cocoon that could shape their thinking
before you do. That's not to say you can't erase the habits or beliefs
they pick up, but by the time they're hardened teenagers, your messages
won't resonate nearly as strongly.
Ultimately, the aim isn't to mold children who only care about
financial riches.. It's to raise children who grow into adults who are
financially aware and who are comfortable managing the various aspects
of money -- whether spending, saving, investing or giving back.
Maybe your child does accumulate financial riches. Maybe not. But
the true measure of your success in this endeavor is that your child,
as an adult, never struggles to understand the basics of personal
finance.
That will prove a far greater legacy than any inheritance you might one day leave behind.
Write to Jeff D. Opdyke at jeff.opdyke@wsj.com
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