eBudgetary

Manage your money in a changing world

Categories: Information, Living Simply, Money Saving Ideas Posted by ElsaBinder on 8/14/2010 7:20 AM

Making small daily decisions to save money can help you afford for bigger, more important purchases and investments.

In this Aug. 1 photo, Ann Brown and her daughter Julie Anne shop for school supplies at a Staples store in Little Rock, Ark. Making small frugal decisions, like waiting for a sale to shop, or turning down your thermostat during the winter, can help you afford bigger, more important purchases and investments.

Danny Johnston/AP/File

By Trent Hamm, Guest blogger / August 13, 2010

This past weekend, I attended GenCon 2010, a gaming convention in Indianapolis, IN, with a group of several friends. I had been saving up to attend this convention for a while, and that savings consisted largely of money saved in the way I described this morning: making lots of small choices that saved money and didn’t negatively impact my way of living.

The Simple Dollar is a blog for those of us who need both cents and sense: people fighting debt and bad spending habits while building a financially secure future and still affording a latte or two. Our busy lives are crazy enough without having to compare five hundred mutual funds – we just want simple ways to manage our finances and save a little money.

During the convention, I had many opportunities to chat with people and I found that at least a few of them had done the exact same thing. They didn’t have the income or resources to travel to such things regularly, but they chose to cut back in other areas. Some of them didn’t own televisions at home, for example. Some of them ran small side businesses for income. Others simply did frugal things, like eating meals at home and putting the savings away for their trip.

In each case, the rule of thumb is the same: they took money away from something of less importance to them to use the money on something of more importance to them.

Translate this to your own life for a moment. What things in your life would you love to be doing but you can’t because you can’t afford it? What do you sit around daydreaming about but never actually do because you don’t have the money?

Maybe you are deeply passionate about travel, but you can only travel once every few years.

Maybe you dream about having the perfect home entertainment setup, but you balk at the price of the television and other equipment.

Maybe your idle thoughts focus on something like attending a convention related to your hobby, but the trip and the expenses are just too much.

You spend years dreaming about these things, but they just keep being out of reach.

That’s where sensible frugality plays a role. The trick is to cut back – hard – in the areas that don’t matter as much to you and save that money where you’ve cut back. This enables you to live your life without misery. (Of course, there’s nothing saying you can’t also choose to make sacrifices in specific areas important to you, too.) At the end of the year, though, you find yourself with the money for that trip or that television or that convention – and you can just do it.

I’ll give a very specific example.

I’ve seen an absolutely gorgeous 60″ LED HDTV for sale at Sam’s Club for about $2,400. It’s beautiful – I won’t deny that. If someone deeply wanted an absolutely amazing home entertainment setup, they might very well make this television the centerpiece of that room. I could see someone who played a lot of video games and/or watched a lot of television purchasing this flat screen and installing it happily in their living room.

But they can’t afford it! What’s a solution to get there?

The person spends $300 a month on their energy bill. Installing a programmable thermostat will cost about $40 up front, but the reduction in energy costs will be about $50 a month or so if properly programmed. This adds up to a total savings of $560 over the course of a year.

The person does three loads of laundry a week. Making their own detergent saves $0.20 a load. Over the course of a year, that adds up to $31.20.

The person drinks a couple bottles of soda a day. Switching to refillable bottles of water stored in the fridge eliminates about $1 a day in spending, giving you $52 more (and it’ll do wonders for your health).

The person commutes 20 miles to work every day for an 40 mile round trip. Setting up a car pool with just one other person four days a week eliminates 80 miles of driving a week. Using the government reimbursement rates, that simple switch will save you $1,040 a year.

The person eats out three times a week. Eating something inexpensive at home once a week instead of eating out saves the person $10 a week, adding up to another $520 over the year.

The person subscribes to a couple premium movie channels that he barely watches. Eliminating these subscriptions and joining Netflix instead reduces the monthly cost from $25 to $9, a savings of $192 a year.

Those moves saves the person $2,395.20 over the course of a year. If he’s socking that money away faithfully in an account bearing 2% interest, he’ll wind up with $2,420 at the end of the year. Time to go buy that television.

Here’s the thing, though: none of those changes required much time investment and they didn’t affect that person’s quality of day-to-day life much at all. He didn’t give up anything life-affirming, but at the end of the year, he had enough cash in hand to make that daydream come true.

You can just substitute in your own “dream” and your own frugal methods of getting there right into this plan. Browse big lists of frugality tips and free things to do and be selective with them, trying out only the things that work for you. Keep track of what you actually save and sock away those savings.

Eventually, you’ll find that you’ve built up some money for whatever it is you’re dreaming of. Even better, you’ll find that this kind of savings is very sustainable and it’ll help you keep building for whatever dream comes next after that.

You can use it to pay off debts. You can use it to build an emergency fund. You can use it to fly to Maui. You can use it to redo your kitchen. Whatever it is you dream of, sensible frugality can do it.

You just need a goal – and you need to start taking the little steps to get there.

Are you ready to start today?



 

Be the first to rate this post

  • Currently 0/5 Stars.
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
Categories: Bill Reduction, Money and Kids, Money Saving Ideas Posted by ElsaBinder on 8/9/2010 3:05 PM

Textbook rental services are on the rise as college students look for ways to save money when buying textbooks.

The textbook rental market is taking off with more retailers adopting rental services in response to book rental websites. In this photo taken July 26, Brittany Wolfe, a University of California Los Angeles graduate, checks old text books at the UCLA Powell Library Building. Renting is a growingly popular choice for students looking to save money on textbooks.

Damian Dovarganes/AP

By Alissa Figueroa, Correspondent / August 9, 2010

Textbook rental is becoming an increasingly popular choice for college students, who’ve seen book prices surge in recent years.

Students can cut their upfront costs in half by renting, rather than buying a textbook, according to the National Association of College Stores, a a trade group for textbook vendors.

And retailers across the country are responding, with local college bookstores opening their own rental services to compete with online book rental sites, like bookrenter.com, which offers free shipping and access to some 3 million titles through a partnership with Amazon.

The National Association of College Stores says about half of its 3,000 member stores will offer book rentals this year. That's some 1,500 independent college bookstores, up from only 200 to 300 last fall.

Barnes & Noble announced on Monday that it, too, would expand its pilot textbook rental program, started in January, to include all of its 637 college bookstores. Students can also rent textbooks from the company’s website.

But aren't paper textbooks (whose cost has increase at twice the rate of inflation over the last two decades, according to the Government Accountability Office) a bit, well, last semester?

For students looking for digitized alternatives, their options are growing as well. Last week, Barnes & Noble announced its new NOOKstudy software package, which students can download for free to access the bookseller’s digital textbooks.

The service allows students to tag, highlight, search, and take notes on their e-textbooks, and offers the option to rent a digital book for the semester at a reduced price.

Contrary to what its name suggests, NOOKstudy is not accessible from Barnes & Noble’s e-reader, the nook, or another mobile device – it can only be downloaded onto a PC or a Mac. Smaller devices are not suitable for viewing textbooks’ graphic-heavy pages, says the booksellers’ website.

The makers of Amazon’s Kindle e-reader thought they’d solved that problem with the Kindle DX, a wider version of the original e-reader designed to make reading academic texts easier.

Last year, the company gave students at seven universities access to the devices with their class materials preloaded onto them.

But as the Village Voice reported last month, the experiment didn’t go very well – several students given Kindles bought the physical textbooks for their classes instead, citing difficulty in taking notes, navigating the books, and reading the color graphics that were shown in black and white.

Of course, there is also the cost of e-readers themselves, which, at around $150 to $200 are a steep investment for any student on a budget.

Another option could be open-source textbooks, as are available on curriki.org, a nonprofit that seeks to provide "universal access to free curricula and instructional materials for grades K-12," according to its website. For college professors, though, who are generally very specific about which textbook their students work from, it could be a long time before open-source curricula are adopted widely.

Be the first to rate this post

  • Currently 0/5 Stars.
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
Categories: Bill Reduction, Budget, Information Posted by ElsaBinder on 8/1/2010 11:00 AM

For most people, a house is the biggest purchase they will make in their lives, one they will pay off for years, even decades, to come. But spending too much on a house could leave you with little money for other goals in life, such as retirement, college funds and vacation.

Before beginning a house hunt, you must first decide whether renting or buying makes the most sense.

If you’re a renter, keep in mind that your rent will go up over time. Renters usually rent if they know or like the idea that they can move when and if they like. Also, renters usually do not have to pay for the maintenance, lawn care or home repairs. They also don’t have to put sweat equity into the rental.

If you buy, know that you’re committed to years of fixing anything that breaks in the house, manicuring the lawn, and paying for any major repairs. Renting makes sense if you plan to live somewhere for a relatively short period of time, as the costs associated with buying a home — such as escrow fees, taxes and closing costs — take some time to amortize. If you’re planning to remain in a place for a longer period of time, buying a house is usually the way to go (however, this equation changes with home values in your area, employment trends and several other factors). Even though the market may fluctuate, over a long stretch you’re likely to make money. And as the real estate market has shown us in 2007 and 2008, it can be a bumpy ride.

If you’ve decided that home ownership is right for you, the next step is deciding how much home you can afford. Typically, most lenders suggest that you spend no more than 28% of your monthly income on a mortgage. Try calculators from dinkytown.com or Bankrate.com to find out how much you can afford. Keep in mind, in addition to the mortgage costs, you’ll have to pay the closing costs and legal fees, which are usually 2% to 3% of the house price. Also, don’t forget moving fees and labor, and any fixes that you might have to make to the house upon moving in, plus monthly maintenance fees if you’re moving into a condo or planned community.

When you’ve figured out your price range, take a look at the market and the issues that matter to you. Research school districts, crime statistics, impending construction or anything that could decrease or increase the value of a home. Look at the surrounding area to see if it’s a place in which you see yourself and family. You can research at greatschools.net or Zillow.com.

When you’ve chosen a home to bid on, don’t assume that the selling cost is the actual cost of the house. While real estate agents use comparable houses, or “comps” as way to price a house, consider what it might cost to buy and build a home on piece of land in that area. For a thorough assessment, hire an appraiser. You can even search zip codes online at AppraisalInstitute.org.

If you have the cash to buy and upkeep, go ahead and buy a home. It’s an investment that will grow over time.

For Wall Street Journal Article Click Here

 

Currently rated 5.0 by 1 people

  • Currently 5/5 Stars.
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
Categories: Bill Reduction, Money Saving Ideas Posted by ElsaBinder on 5/2/2010 2:14 PM
(by J.D. Roth)  Exerpt

Last week I gave a talk at Powell’s bookstore here in Portland. During the question-and-answers session, one woman posed an interesting question. (I’ve forgotten her name, so let’s call her Kim to make things easy.)

Kim has been aggressively paying down her debt, and is pleased with her progress. However, her boyfriend thinks she’s doing it wrong. If I understand correctly, Kim’s boyfriend believes she should pay down each debt part way (perhaps a half or a third) so that none of her obligations is near its limit. He believes that this will increase Kim’s credit score. Kim wanted to know if this was a good idea.

Too much control
Obviously, it’s difficult to give a complete answer without knowing more about the situation. Still, I think this is a great example of how financial decisions are often about more than just the math involved. There are three basic approaches to debt here:

  • Tackle the debts in order of interest rate, knocking off the high-interest debts first. Mathematically, this is the best option because — if you follow through — you’ll pay less interest in the long run.
  • Tackle the debts in order of balance, starting with the debts you owe least on first. Psychologically, this is usually the best option because you can get some quick wins, knocking off several debts in a short amount of time. This is the method Dave Ramsey recommends. (And so do I.)
  • Or, as Kim’s boyfriend recommends, try to coordinate payments so that each debt is paid down to a certain level before focusing on a specific obligation. For various esoteric reasons, this method should have the greatest impact on your credit score.

My recommendation during the question-and-answer period? No surprise: I told Kim that she should use the approach that makes her most comfortable, the approach that actually leads her to pay off her debts most quickly. I think it’s great that her boyfriend is eager for her to improve her credit score, but I think it’s dangerous to be dogmatic, especially if it involved becoming controlling about another person’s financial situation.


Currently rated 5.0 by 1 people

  • Currently 5/5 Stars.
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
Categories: Living Simply, Money Saving Ideas Posted by ElsaBinder on 5/2/2010 2:04 PM

I love stories like these!  This is a couple who delayed their instant gratifacation (debt bearing) honeymoon, waited, and paid for it in cash.  

Click Here to see video.

Be the first to rate this post

  • Currently 0/5 Stars.
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
Categories: Environmentally Friendly Budgeting, Living Simply, Money Saving Ideas Posted by ElsaBinder on 4/20/2010 1:13 PM

Cure poisen ivy, repel insects-and clean you house....all with vodka!

Click Here

I have actually used some of these and they work.  I can't wait (with the exception of poisen ivy) to try the others.  

Be the first to rate this post

  • Currently 0/5 Stars.
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
Categories: Information Posted by ElsaBinder on 4/19/2010 8:37 PM
 
The road to financial hell is paved with alluring options: credit cards, payday loans, reverse mortgages, 401(k) raids and more.

And even though parts of the economy are starting to look stronger, the unemployment rate remains at 9.7%, many families are absorbing weeks of unpaid furloughs and others are simply trying to rebuild what they have lost.

Don't compound your problems by making these eight major money missteps:

1. Raiding your 401(k)

Don't think of retirement savings as "now" money. It's money you've really got to save for later, says Mackey McNeill, a CPA who serves on the American Institute of Certified Public Accountants' Financial Literacy Commission.

"Our parents' generation generally worked for someone who gave them a pension check for the rest of their lives," she says. "Today, we actually control our pensions. People think, 'I can see those dollars there. They have my name on the account. I'm going to use that money.' "

It's particularly foolhardy to dip into your 401(k) if you're in danger of bankruptcy, McNeill says, because retirement accounts are protected under bankruptcy laws in most states. You don't have to surrender your retirement to get a fresh start.

"Some people use their IRAs, and then they wind up in bankruptcy, anyway," she says. "So now, they're bankrupt and they don't have any retirement."

2. Walking out on a mortgage

If you owe more than your house is worth, walking away is not your only option, providing that you still have some income to pay a mortgage. McNeill says the first step is to look honestly at your finances and determine whether you face a short-term issue or a long-term one.

Short-term means you just got laid off and have no savings or small savings, but the job market in your town is such that you can probably get some part-time or full-time work to keep money coming in. Long-term means you've been unemployed, you've depleted your savings, and you don't see a way back into the job market.

"If it's long term, then you can't afford your home anymore," McNeill says. "The faster you recognize it and make plans to let it go, the better it will be. Put your best foot forward to sell your home. Move into a smaller, less-expensive place and preserve your capital for when times are better for you.

"If it is a short-term situation, talk with your mortgage lenders and see if they will suspend or lower your payments over the next three to six months," McNeill says.

For information about modifying your mortgage, go to MakingHomeAffordable.gov, a website sponsored by the federal government with the goal of helping the 12 million American families whose homes are now worth less than they owe. The site lists HUD-approved counselors who will work with you for free. If you do not use the Internet, you can contact the program toll-free at 888-995-4673.

3. Ignoring the card balance

Although credit card usage dipped more than 13% in February, almost 15% of American families still owe more than 40% of their income, according to the Federal Reserve.

A credit card should be used strictly as a convenience, not as a means to spend more than you can afford, says Ken McDonnell of the American Savings Education Council.

"Ask yourself the question, 'Do I really need that?' Or, more important, 'Can I afford it?' These aren't radically new concepts."

McDonnell recommends reading the new government-mandated box on your credit card bill that shows how long it will take to pay off your balance if you pay only the minimum and how much interest you pay to carry a balance.

"You won't get out of debt overnight. It's going to take time," he says. "Behavior modification just doesn't happen overnight."

4. Debt-wipeout scams

Be careful when talking with debt-consolidation firms.

"Most of the ones I've seen are shams," says McNeill. "I would be very, very cautious. Pretty much, stay away."

An alternative: Seek help through a local United Way chapter, which provides referrals to non-profit counselors, or through the non-profit National Foundation for Credit Counseling.

5. Co-signing a loan

If a friend or relative asks you to co-sign a loan, it means his credit is so shaky no lender will give him money on his own merits. Why should you?

"Co-signing is a business transaction, but people don't think of it as a business transaction. They think, 'I'm helping my friend out,' " McDonnell says.

"But what you're really doing is co-signing for a loan," McDonnell says, "and you could be on the hook for that."

Nessa Feddis of the American Bankers Association says you should always assume you will have to repay the loan you're co-signing.

"I would be more cautious about co-signing for a romantic relationship than in a parent-child relationship," Feddis says. "Relationships can end up badly. There can be a lot of acrimony, and that could change someone's interest in repaying that loan."

6. Payday loans

About 19 million Americans have resorted to these high-interest loans, although the number has dropped in the past year.

They are marketed as short-term cash advances to meet emergency expenses between paychecks.

But consumers often become trapped in repeat borrowing, says Jean Ann Fox of the Consumer Federation of America.

For the average two-week payday loan, the annualized interest rate ranges from 391% to 521%, says Kathleen Day of the Center for Responsible Lending.

7. Reverse mortgages

Older actors pop up on television marketing these mortgages as an easy income stream for seniors who are house-rich and cash-poor. But the fees and other costs associated with reverse mortgages can sometimes be considerably higher than on other loans.

David Certner of AARP says a reverse mortgage may be a reasonable choice for some homeowners, especially the nearly one-third of retirees who have almost no income other than their Social Security checks, but the high fees associated with it make it a last resort, not a first resort.

Other options: Take out a home equity loan. Sell your home and move to a smaller, less-expensive one. Or sell your home to your kids and create a multigenerational family under one roof. When you die, they can use their inheritance to pay down the mortgage.

8. Trying to stiff Uncle Sam

"If you look at the small print when you sign your tax return," says Gerald Feffer, a Washington, D.C., tax attorney, "you'll see that basically you're affirming that everything in it is accurate and true."

What happens if you are audited and everything is not accurate?

"If it's a small amount, and it's accidental and not intentional, it will be resolved," Feffer says. "If it's a large amount, and they can be sure it's intentional, then they could charge you with fraud, and there could be penalties involved."

Currently rated 5.0 by 1 people

  • Currently 5/5 Stars.
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5

The Simple Dollar

Summer vacationing without breaking the bank

By Trent Hamm, Guest blogger / 04.16.10

This summer, my wife and I and our three children – a four year old, a two year old, and a baby – are going on at least three different family trips. One will be to downstate Illinois, another will be to northeast Iowa and southwest Wisconsin, and the third will be to northern Minnesota. That doesn’t include multiple graduations we’re going to attend in May, either.

How are we going to do this while simultaneously keeping our sanity (yes, you try traveling for several hours in a vehicle with a four year old, a two year old, and an infant) and keeping our wallets in good shape? Here are seven methods we’re using to provide great experiences for our family while also keeping our finances in mind.

Keep in mind why we’re doing this

Why would we want to travel with a car full of small children? For some people, there may be no rational answer to this question at all. For us, though, there are several reasons.

First and foremost, we want the children to see different places and people. The geography where we live is very flat; this summer, they’re going to visit some very hilly areas. There are no large lakes here, but this summer we’re going to visit Lake Superior. We’re also going to go to areas with at least some cultural differences from home. On top of that, we also want to spend a lot of time outside, as fresh air is one of the best things you can give a child or give yourself.

Those are the reasons we’re traveling. Those reasons have nothing to do with seeing some mind-blowing sites or going to spectacular events. We know why we’re doing this and we let those reasons lead the whole vacation. As long as we follow that lead, we don’t need to pour money on other activities or sojourns.

Stay with family and friends

On each of these trips, either in the middle of a travel leg or near our destination, we’ll be staying with family or with friends.

This provides both a social purpose (seeing people we care about) and a financial purpose (free lodging for a night or two). Usually, in exchange for this, we often will buy dinner when we’re there (or prepare it). We also allow any family and friends who are in our area to stay at our home for free.

This is an exchange that does nothing but build relationships and help out everyone involved.

Camp out

At least once this summer (perhaps twice), we will be camping out for multiple days. Yes, with a baby. We did it with just one baby and we did it with both a toddler and a baby, so I don’t think it’ll be a problem doing it again with two young children and a baby.

In fact, there’s one big advantage to camping: unless there’s a storm, when everyone falls asleep, everyone sleeps really deeply. I actually tend to sleep better when we’re camping because there are no night-time interruptions or other such things.

On top of that, camping can be incredibly inexpensive. We often request camping gear for gift-giving occasions, which makes camping nearly free. Usually, all we pay for is the spot to camp on – $10 to $20 a night unless we find a free option. Our supplies are usually inexpensive, too, especially if we collect or make our own while we’re there. It provides exercise, tons of fresh air, and some wonderful time in the great outdoors with the people I care about most.

Plan for the road trips

Road trips can be a very expensive part of traveling (as can flying, but I’m just simply not going to attempt that with three children under five). Between the gas, the maintenance costs, and the expensive food and beverages along the way, it can really add up.

That’s why I do some advance planning. The goal is to prevent stops, because stops are expensive.

First, I make sure there are plenty of beverages and snacks packed, probably more than we need. I usually pack sandwiches and vegetables and fruits so that we can have a full picnic meal on the road. I also prepare a big bag full of things to do for the children on the trip.

Second, we stop mostly at rest stops and everyone is required to go to the restroom when we stop. This reduces the temptation to spend money on overpriced stuff when we stop and it also reduces the overall number of stops. Another advantage is that many rest stops (particularly in Iowa) have areas for running around in the grass and picnicking, both of which happen on trips.

Use alternative housing

Hostels. College dorms. YMCA lodging. Housesitting. These are all great options for saving money on lodging when you arrive if you’d prefer not to camp. We are actually going to do some housesitting this summer for one of our trips.

Find out what types of alternative housing are available at your destination. This can be done with just a bit of effective internet searching. Reviews of the housing (available on many travel websites) can help you avoid unexpected problems.

Utilize free activities when we’re there

Vacation doesn’t have to be about jumping from high-priced activity to high-priced activity. Most of the best memories from the vacations I’ve taken in my life come from the free things we did: climbing a hillside in Edinburgh, putting my feet in the ocean northwest of Seattle, seeking out petroglyphs on foot in rural Arizona.

Yes, if there’s something your heart is set on that you really want to see that costs money, do it. However, use travel guides that help you identify the free things in the area and use those to fill up your activity schedule. Spend some time doing simple things, like walking in the woods or resting on the beach or building a great campfire.

Be resourceful

Before you go, tell your social network where you’re intending to go and ask if they have any tips or suggestions about traveling there. You might just be shocked at what your receive in return.

Be resourceful when you’re there as well. Don’t buy firewood if you can find it yourself. Don’t buy campfire roasting sticks – use a knife and make them from branches. Don’t buy beverages – carry an empty container and fill up at water fountains. Just by taking a few little steps to avoid buying things, you can save money left and right on your trip without reducing your enjoyment of it one iota.

Good luck!

Click Here for Website

Be the first to rate this post

  • Currently 0/5 Stars.
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
Posted by ElsaBinder on 4/3/2010 1:33 PM

Josh from WalletPop.com here with an entry for the GetRichSlowly.org video contest.  He compressed an hour's worth of knowledge he shares with graduating seniors in under 2 minutes! Surprising what a mass of useful information can be told in just two minutes.

Click Here to See Video

Be the first to rate this post

  • Currently 0/5 Stars.
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
Categories: Money and Kids Posted by ElsaBinder on 4/3/2010 1:12 PM

It's a simple calculus, kids and money: From birth until college graduation, children consume dollars like they're chicken nuggets.

For those of us who aren't independently wealthy, that puts unrelenting pressure on the family pocketbook. The financial demands of raising a child require that money you otherwise might use to prepare for retirement, or to save for a nicer house, a sportier car or a swankier vacation, must, out of necessity, be earmarked for Lego sets and pediatrician visits and school uniforms and Christmas toys and a college savings account and a minivan and a trip to Disneyland ... and lots of, well, chicken nuggets.

I'm not saying this to disparage kids. I have two of my own, and money is nothing in comparison to the happiness they bring me and my wife. Yet happiness does not negate the fact that the moment a child arrives -- and, actually, months before the arrival -- your role as an adult changes in dramatic, profound ways.

And so, too, does your family's financial life.

[Lede] Ryan Snook

Not only are you now on the hook for tens of thousands of dollars in costs over the next two decades, you also have a new obligation to teach your children about money so that they grow into adults who are at home in the financial world and who have a healthy relationship with money. You, the parent, are the first and most crucial link in that learning process.

A Lot to Teach

I know that money seems a simple technology and one that wouldn't seem to require much handholding. After all, you've been spending it yourself since you were a kid, and you've been earning it at least a few years. What more is there to know about it, really? And what more do you really need to teach your kids that you don't already know yourself? Well, if statistics are any indicator, a lot.

In measuring how well 12th graders understand the basics of personal finance, the nonprofit Jump$tart Coalition for Personal Financial Literacy found that a measly 10% could satisfactorily answer questions about personal finance. Many had no clue how to balance a checkbook. Over all, about half the students failed a test on basic personal-finance literacy.

Yet life as an adult clearly requires knowledge of personal finance. That doesn't mean your child needs an M.B.A. in security analysis or that you need to hire a financial adviser to tutor your preschooler. But kids obviously need better information to more effectively manage their own financial resources one day.

Kids have an infinite ability to hear what parents say, even in those moments we're convinced they haven't heard a word we uttered. Moreover, the concept you're pushing might not sink in the first time. Or the third time. Or the eighth time. But there will come a moment when you say what you need to say for the umpteenth time, and the way you phrase it or the mood of the moment or the experience your child just had will cause your lesson, almost miraculously, to suddenly resonate.

Of course, you might not know it at that moment. You will know it, though, when you see or hear your lessons in action.

Driving back from one of my son's soccer games a year or so ago, a flashy Italian sports car pulled up alongside of us on the freeway and the teammate riding home with us said, "Wow, that guy's rich."

Adapted from "Piggybanking: Preparing Your Financial Life for Your Kids, and Your Kids for a Financial Life." Copyright 2010 by Jeff D. Opdyke. Published by Harper Business, an imprint of HarperCollins Publishers.

My son, engrossed in a handheld videogame, looked up to glance at the roadster and reflexively replied, "It's not how much money you spend that makes you rich. You don't know; that guy might have spent all his money just to buy that car and he has nothing else. So he might not be rich at all."

Here he was casually correcting a teammate about what is and isn't the definition of wealth, barely having to think about what he was saying. The words were coming out effortlessly. Mom and Dad, he proved, really can make a difference when they set out to instill a bit of financial wisdom in their children.

But my son's commentary was not based on a one-off lecture I'd given him. The lessons had begun early and his mom and I reiterated them time and again.

Make a First Impression

Kids are far more impressionable when they're younger and much less likely to have any sort of experiences outside the family cocoon that could shape their thinking before you do. That's not to say you can't erase the habits or beliefs they pick up, but by the time they're hardened teenagers, your messages won't resonate nearly as strongly.

Ultimately, the aim isn't to mold children who only care about financial riches.. It's to raise children who grow into adults who are financially aware and who are comfortable managing the various aspects of money -- whether spending, saving, investing or giving back.

Maybe your child does accumulate financial riches. Maybe not. But the true measure of your success in this endeavor is that your child, as an adult, never struggles to understand the basics of personal finance.

That will prove a far greater legacy than any inheritance you might one day leave behind.

Write to Jeff D. Opdyke at jeff.opdyke@wsj.com

Currently rated 5.0 by 1 people

  • Currently 5/5 Stars.
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5